Question that we are asked: Why sometimes conversation between couples, partners or between parents and their children end up to an argument? There are many reasons for that. one of the most common issues is that, instead of talking about our feeling or our concern in a conversation, we start talking about other person ‘s behavior that it is not acceptable to us. Sometimes your request is not clear for others so be sure you request clearly. Look at your language and thought, is it judgmental? Is it rational thought? Remember we never get angry because of what he/ she does, we are angry because we have Judgmental thought. Anger leads our conversation to violence. For instance, I feel sad because you did that. It means we blame others who cause anger and therefor they deserve punishment.
It’s important to learn about effective communication in our relationships.
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